@Real Vs What seems to Be Real
Life has one wired rule
''Sometimes Your Lie makes others happy (when you say what they like) ,
Sometimes Your truth makes others Angry ''
I am or was never able to decide what to say because both have their own cosecuences. Lie do not allow your internal soul to lay you down(to have peace). And Anger of other demands clarification (even though they do not trust for clarification because ''they thaught that!!'' your truth is lie)

Moral :
Sometimes truth or lie should not be measured from what it seems to be ,
but if you want to know real truth either you find it or don't blaim blindly if you don't know it.

Do You Really Know Him/Her , Or you know the one he/she pretends to be??

Don't judge , like or dislike a person with prejudice. Your respect , anger ,like or dislike may be to the person he/she is not actually. It may be for the person he/she pretends to be.

1* "The epic downfall of cycling's star, once an idolized icon of millions around the globe, stands out in the history of professional sports."

2* "the most sophisticated, professionalized and successful doping program that sport has ever seen."

Do you know to whom this sentences relates to??
 ''Lance Armstrong''.
The person he was pretending to be was idolized icon for millions around the globe. What about the person he actually was??
Same things happens with all of us. Sometimes we got mesmarized by several things/persons.But when you go deep into , then only you will find the reality. Look around you and find whom you trust are the real ''they''??

Some people live life like there are 24 hours camaras around them (overacting to everything).You may find them perfect.But its reality show dude U will be valued on his/her set untill you brought him/her trp(you know what i mean by trp!!). And about others you may not like what they say but it can be true or what they do but it can be right thing to do or right path to go.
It seems like marketing concept of selling yourself and packaging has came to real life practices!!! You make sure that you are focusing on thing(person) rather than packagin(pretendings) before selecting them. To let them be a part of your life.

Anyway don't be so serious , It was really something that you should know.You might feel it right but you don't have focused on it till now.
Whatever....
One thing we should learn is to leave the fear of being judged by other persons. Specially I am damm sure about me... HA ...HA ..I have that fear.. don't know about you.

WRITING DEVOTED
TO THE REAL FRIEND OF LIFE OF MINE AS WELL AS YOURS.

Delhi Assembly Elections : WHo is the Winner? -'' Rise of Democracy''

My Point of view for the Results of Delhi Election:

Delhi people are very smart. They are sure about what they want.
In 'LOKSABHA'  result of Delhi : BJP-7 , AAP-0   out of 7
was that fault of AAP??  Was this Victory of BJP??
In 'Assembly' Result : AAP: 64+3 , BJP-3 out of 70
was that fault of BJP? Was this Victory of AAP??
NOWAY......
Both parties have tried their best for both the elections. There are no excuses for it.
If in Loksabha scenario was like BJP-5 , AAP-2 then it was true that BJP won the Loksabha elections.
If in Assembly scenario was like AAP-47, BJP-22 , other -1 then it was true that it was true that AAP won the Assembly Elections.
BUT
In both elections People remained same , then why does scenario changed UP SIDE DOWN??
What Changed?? Peoples' mindset??
NOway....
Thing is very clear Delhi people are very clear about their priority. They do not compromise with their choices at any cost.
They were clear from begining that -''Whom they want in Center && Whom they want to rule Delhi.'' 
They have made very good choice at both level apart from any factor of cast, politics game, or anything else.
SALUTE TO 'VOTERS' OF DELHI
At last it is certain that BJP and AAP has won at certain angle in respective elections but moreover that it is the true Victory of Delhi people.
''YES. NO ONE OTHER THAN DELHI PEOPLE HAS MORE RIGHT TO CLAIM ON ANY OF THE VICTORY BECAUSE IT WAS GIVEN BY THEM BEING VERY AWARE ''

''This is the Real Rise of Indian Democracy'' & 
Now its time for those Political powers who have only played with the public to move out of the game.
Jay Hind

Against Of AIB Knockout

***Against of AIB Knockout***
I don't understan how peopel can stand in favour of AIB knockout calling their own people orthodox while they are taking side of vulgarity.
 Are you out of your mind?
 Even girls are taking side of AIB knockout showing you advantages of AIB knockout comedy over ''porn''. what a mindset?!!
Some are protesting that they have already said ,18+ only. so what ?? Porn or Incest film with 18+ lable should be allowed openly?? 
How will a mother feel when his son use word ''c**t'' in front of her.
 Or
 one will protest 'if you don't like then don't watch'. Ok i will not but what about others ? This will create open environment for vugarity in society.
 If you are married and ''Open enough'' to hear such abusing words from your husband/wife/ son (whatever suits you) then stand on the side of AIB knockout.
I think ''we'' orthodox are not ready to hear such things from the mouth of small child, or even from friends in our day to day life as normal words. WE orthodox might be hurdals to your progress to make India like foreign countries in the cases of ''freedom of speech?!!''  but sometimes we also think that why our culture has been proven sound enough to fight with stresses comparing to other all cultures? this might be miracal for you but for us it is due to its values and principles. 
Are we here to hide ''vulgarity'' under the ''freedom of speech''?
At last you will ask me '' who asked you to watch? '' no one. But when it will be infront of you then Human psycology tends to click such mysterious things.
some reactions: oh.... Cool man , this can make you laugh its enough. This is humour only.
but
Its not cool.  is it cool if i call you with abusing words in front of your sister. I think not in Indian culture of orthodox like us.
( To AIB knockout supporters
Any way don't take anything personally. You surely will not because you are positive enough to find humour & comedy in vulgarity then this is nothing.
)


EDITS:
(Not 4 All.    ***Read only if you are really further interested)

Here are some points that came to my attention anyway from some comments. I would like to put some clatifications ...

** Here I do not force any one to accept what I believe **

*1st point)

Commentator:
It was 18+. and it was not broadcasted openly for all to see. It was on Youtube. You had to go on Youtube. Search for it. Read all the disclaimers. And then the video started. Sensible people who don't like it would've shut the window.
And porn is allowed btw. you just have to google for it.

my view :
It was not open that is right. It was on youtube but it becomes open with one management term ''word of mouth'' (what people says?). No matter either positive or negative this can lead anyone to check that out. 
Another thing youtube promotes videos by itself. SO if you are watching comedy video than this video will be shown in one side under the tag''recommanded for you''. 
Because it has same tag ''comedy''.
And yes it falls under 18+ . But analize your self that is any 18+ video has shown you any right track??? Here much more to say , but i am limiting it.

*2nd point)
How will a mother feel when his son use word ''c**t'' in front of her.

Commentator:
2) Depends on the mother. Also you don't actually watch everything in front of the parents, do you ? It wasn't meant to be watched with parents.

my view:
1st of all ''No mother accepts this. And It never depends upon mother''.
(You will feel me what i am trying to say. If you are sensibel enough.
And i think you are.)
2nd you have misunderstood me I am not talking about whatching everything with parents. What i am saying is speaking such words in front of parents (as happens in AIB knockout. In front of mother?!!!! &  sister?!!)

*3rd point)

Commentator:
Don't you travel in buses ? go to tea stalls. Seriously, the quality of abuses is much worse in day to day life. It is already an open environment on abusing.

my view : 
Yes , I travel in buses and also go to tea stalls. And seriously yaar I have never found such abusing words in day to day life except in case of fight.
(several times some group might use this but not every now and then,
and even they also stop when it comes to elders or any women.)
I will surely wonder if conductor says : oy,c *****ye chal ticket dikha. Insted of ''Aapka tiket dikhaye''
or any other: oy, c*****ye, chal ye seat khali kar. insted of '' Yeh seat meri hai, aap khade ho jaiye.''

*4th point)

Commentator:
"Are we here to hide ''vulgarity'' under the ''freedom of speech''?
At last you will ask me '' who asked you to watch? 'no one. But when it will be infront of you then Human psycology tends to click such mysterious things."

Its not their fault, that you watched. A child goes to porn site, and watches porn, which is quite easy. You just have to google for it. It's not the porn sites' fault that a child went to watch it. It's the parents' fault for not being attentive enough.

my view:
Yes, its not their fault that I watched. or in A child goes to porn site and watches porn. It was never their fault because it was their intention to make you watch , to earn.
The fault was ours that no one filed FIR befour I watched it or Before child watched porn.

*5th point)

Commentator:
Ofcourse its not cool if you abuse me in front of anyone or even alone. Why ? Because I didn't allow you to.
On the other hand, Arjun and Ranveer knew what was going to happen. Theyconsented it. That's the difference.

my view:
First of all I need not any allowance because I am sensible enough to know that I should not abuse you infront of your relatives or elders even I should never abuse you My friend.
On other hand , ''Arjun and Ranveer knew what was going to happen.'' thats the point ''How can they do such things knowingly in front of ..."

*6th point) I don't take things personally.
me: This is your best quality and it achieves admiration
Source: ''Quora''

Why do people still believe in Nirmal Baba ( even after he was exposed by media) ?

Nowadays ,

 People are intersed in mysterious things.

( eventhough those things are very simple but shown to be mysterious ).
ex . Moksh marg , secret powers ,...etc.
people are troubled in such extent that they have started to depend upon others for very simple things. They have capability to solve their own problems but reality is--> '' worst thing of this century ' people have lost faith in theirselves ''. That is the reason that all seminars on the subjects like stress management , Think big , Be positive , or Power Unlimited , Be millionnaire , Awaken the power of subconcious Mind , .....etc are fully crowded. While the reality is this all subjects can't be taught in 2/3 days seminars. Those are long path of your own research and success and determination. People don't try to find roots of their problem ,but badly seeks for the answer from outer world. They are so eager that they have stopped checking truthfullness or base of them on which they depends. 
He (Nirmal Baba ) rightly understood the true analytical ability of common Indian and used it effectively for his own good, 
 I was surprised to see that people pay 3000 Rs entry fee to listen bullshit like using a harrison lock rather than godrej one will lead to an end of their problems, or eating a samosa with green chutni will be their turning point in life.
Yes , People still believe in him and will continue to believe the reason is as I have explained above. The another fact is that if you are seeking for your career opportunities . This is the best option to go for counseling and all this. Many have understood these facts and started also. Only thing you need here is Confidence. I assure you that there are many like followers of Nirmal baba or rampal who are eagerly waiting for being fool. ( Eventhough real counseling is very different from all this ).
Success stories of such nirmal babas will not stop untill and unless People strats believing in themselves and understand true meaning of their life , culture , work cycle and roots of their problems.
Thank you for reading .

 I tried my best to explain this and hope that this understanding will one day reach to the minds of all the thinkers.Moral of the story :Don't seek for answers of your questions here and their,But Believe in Yourself.

(ALL VIEW ABOVE ARE MY PERSONAL , BELIEVE OR DON'T IS YOUR CHOICE.

ALL IMAGES ARE FROM GOOGLE IMAGES )

Genocide – the dark mark of humanity

                                    Genocide – the dark mark of humanity

                Time passed like the sand in close hands, Human race has gone through a genocide sorry 'genocides' at different part of earth, different subcontinents ,different  regions with different purposes behind them. What was the same thing in them??? very simple answer : Lives of Innocent People

Hundred of them/ thousand of them/ lacs of them but Most of them or all of  them were 'Innocent'.

story 1:

                 A person born in poor family struggled hard and studied well. He fought every even odds of life and got his family settled but one day they were captured taken to the gas chamber and were suffocated with many others like them until death releasing toxic gases in the chamber.  Wasn't he innocent? Not only him most of them who died in Gas chamber ''Were they born and brought up to die in 'gas chamber' only!!''  Bankers , Engineers , Doctors, farmers ............. Men , Women , & children

WHAT ABOUT ALL OF THEM????????????????????????????????????????

More than 60 lacs of people sorry!! Innocent people died in ''Gas chamber Genocide'' carried out by  Hitler. Though he was savior for Germany people BUT  By whom he was given rights to decide about lives 

of all these people.    Really 'Heil Hitler?!!!'

story 2:

A person born in poor family struggled and studied well. He fought every even odds of life and got his family settled but one day an ATOM BOMB came from sky and destroyed everything. Was he born to die without a reason  for the clash between two countries???

                                     

story 3:  

A person born in poor family struggled and studied well. He fought every even odds of life and got his family settled but one day he found it wasn't rainy season though it was raining cats and dogs only thing changed was drop of water replaced by Bomb.

You might have got that person was in Germany and raining of bombs done by UK & FRANCE & all their supportive countries.

has a person anything to do with all this???

story 4:

A person born in poor family struggled and studied well. He fought every even odds of life and got his family settled but one day.......................................................

story 5:

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story 'n-1' :

A person.............................but one day an army came and ordered them to go out of 'their' own country as a matter of symbol to horrify others he and his family were killed.! A person? or persons? was form Tibet --How many??-1.2 million killed!! Army was Chinese army. As a matter of fact now, there is no country known as 'Tibet' in map. Wasn't that most peaceful country of the world?!!  

story 'n' :

A person born in poor family struggled and studied well. He fought every even odds of life and got his family settled but one day he and his family were killed why??? because 'they were yazidies'

and some people (ISIS) ''believes!!!!'' that they (Yazidies) are sons of / worshipers of  'Satan'. What a joke about one of the most peaceful people  of world.

story 'n+1':

A person born in poor family struggled and studied well. He fought every even odds of life and got his family settled but one day............................... happened (in process in Ukraine).........will be killed

or were killed until this essay reaches to you.

He or his family even don't know  on missile/bomb of which country (might be USA or  Russia or one of  their own!) 

story continuous.............................................................

Media to politician  : What made you to take such rude/merciless steps?

Politician 1: We were defending ourselves. (so poor!! by killing lacs of  'Innocents')

Politician 2: They were ruining my country and my people by Heavy loans , and ....(Really? were                                      they? was that the reason or any personal suffering was behind that?)

Politician 3: They haven't left any option for us.( Impossible !! most of the innocents you had killed                                were not even part of all this)

Politician 4: I have done what was necessary to keep my country safe or make peace in the                                                  world.(You should be front leader in army fighting against ISIS. seriously!! You worry so                   much about peace in the world)

Politician 5: .................Please, N0 more

in each and every story above.

'A person' represents birth , bringing up , fighting with even odds of life , of  each and every persons who died in black history of Genocides.  And these stories are not work of fiction written by Sidney Sheldon where at the end Good/Innocent person/hero win the battle and saves lives of others. In fact they are not stories....they contains facts of reality that had happened or is happening .......

                Here what is different from novel is a tyrant came to picture does whatever he likes or wishes to do, goes up to harsh limit of Genocides with his foolish ideas or reasons ,kills thousands of innocents ,  he gets away uncharged very  least people care about it & suspense comes now ...no heroes

story ends. people who have really cared are unable to do anything about all this. WHY??

BECAUSE

THIS IS REALITY NOT A MOVIE OR NOVEL....................

                so sad!! what a merciless!! are those our expressions??  what after few days. we will settle in our life. We will forget it. or We will wait until I or my family or relatives ,one of them or all of them be a part of one of such numerous stories.

                Are you serious?

                Yes , We have talked a lot about humanity , unity we have made many agreements yet we are fighting for food , land ,  sea-areas , ice lands ,sky and above the sky out of atmosphere for the space to set our satellites , for the space on Moon as well as in future for Mars.

                All these had led us to many genocide in past as well as in present and there is all set for genocide of future!!!

CONCLUSION:

               

We have accepted Genocide as dark mark of HUMANITY!!. But we do not accept this fact that ''We have accepted Genocide as dark mark of HUMANITY!!'' AND things which we have accepted we do not fight against them to make them Right. This is the reason, Why world is silent? for genocides going on right now in Iraq ,Syria ,cultural genocide in Tibet & genocide in Ukraine.

It's time to reunite All hearts throbbing for Humanity to Give Fight Against All these.

Come ahead for WORLD PEACE.

                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                                ---JEMISH

( CONTENT OF ESSAY IS NOT ANY BLAIM. I HAVE TRIED TO CONNECT THE FACTS. THERE IS NOT ANY MISMEANING, OR WORDS CREATING MISUNDERSTANDING. YET I APOLIZISE FOR SPEAKING THE TRUTH WHICH HURTS A LOT. )   

If you are eager 
For Further Information :

Go and Find on Google about Each and every case of Genocide. You will surely be shocked by reasons behind all of them and extreme limit of cruelty in each of them.

Eassay Dedicated to World Peace
and to all who feels that We all are One Family.

Thanks for Reading
Let Me know your views (Do you Feel the same?!!) by comments.